Help! My Child is Starting Kindergarten! Now What?
School is right around the corner, and your baby is headed for Kindergarten for the first time. Sometimes I think it may be more scary for us parents than for the child, but we all know it can be frightening for them too. We want our children to be prepared and feel secure when they go to school, and when they ride the bus for the first time.
I have put four children through Kindergarten, and believe me I cried when each one got on the bus for the first time. It does get easier, but the hardest was when my youngest stepped on the bus for the first time. I came to realize that he was the last child, and there will be no more babies for us.
As parents, we often wonder if our children are developmentally and emotionally ready for Kindergarten. We want to make sure they have the skills they need to make things easier for them. In this two part series, I will share some suggestions for how you can help prepare your child for Kindergarten in all of the ways that count. Part one focuses on preparing your child emotionally, mentally and socially.
How to Prepare Your Kindergartener Emotionally, Mentally and Socially
- Talk about the fun things they will learn and do in school
- Visit the school
- Help your child prepare for transportation
- Discuss Fears
Talking to your child and re-assuring them will help them feel more at ease. Tell them about the things they will do at school. Talk about the fun games they will play, the new friends they will make, the things they will learn.
Share some of your memories of your school days and what you experienced. Explain how a general day at school works – lessons, activities, games, snack time, lunch time, music, arts and crafts – so they have an idea of what to expect. Who knows, they may even get excited!
Some kids are very shy and prefer to be by themselves. Some may not have other siblings at home. As a result, they do not get a lot of socialization with other children or adults. Knowing this would most likely worry you.
There are a few different ways to help your child develop their social skills prior to Kindergarten. For example, take your child to the park and encourage them to play with other children. Schedule play dates with other moms of small children (could be good for you as well).
Taking your child to see the school and meeting their teacher before the big day, can make a world of difference in their confidence and comfort levels. I realize this may not always be possible, but if you can, it will help.
Many schools actually have an open house before Kindergarten begins for this exact reason. Make an effort to attend. If you cannot, or if your school does not offer this, see about scheduling a time with the school and teacher where you can bring your child to visit. Let them walk around the room. Show them where they will hang their coat. If the school is an all day Kindergarten, show them where the lunchroom is.
Encourage your child and don’t be afraid to ask the teacher any questions that might concern your child. A prepared child usually results in a confident child.
If your child will be riding the bus, you can help him or her prepare for this new experience by talking to them about it. Explain the routine, such as what time they will need to be on the bus and where they will sit. Discuss the rules, such as staying in their seat, listening to their driver and following instructions.
Talk about the possible experience and do your best to make it less scary. Perhaps you know some friends who may or may not be on the bus. Ask if they have any questions or concerns. Most important, you do not want your child to see any anxiety you may have as they will easily pick up on your emotions.
Your child will most likely have some fears and this is very normal. They may worry about how they are going to find their classroom, or how they are going to get home once school gets out.
If your child is riding the bus, he or she may worry about getting on the wrong bus. Explain to your child that someone will direct them to the correct bus (my children’s school did that with the Kindergartners). Let them know that the school has all the appropriate information on file, such as phone numbers, bus number, who is picking them up, etc. so they will not get left behind or lost. It’s important to stay positive for your child so that they have the same outlook and can feel as comfortable as possible.
Be sure to keep an eye out for the second part of this series where I will share some more ideas for helping your child prepare for Kindergarten.
- Tips for Preparing Your Child for Kindergarten
- Preparing Your Child for Kindergarten
- Top 10 Books for Starting School for the First Time
- 6 going on 16
- 8 Great Ways for Parents to Help Children Build a Positive Self-Image
- How Do You Help Your Teen with Their Education?
- 10 Ways to Teach Kids About Money – Part 2, Elementary Age
- 10 Ways to Teach Kids About Money – Part 1, Preschoolers
Tricia is the owner of Tricia’s Treasures and a happily married mom of four wonderful children. I have resided in SouthWest Florida for five years and originally from Massachusetts. Her favorite show to watch is Criminal Minds and also love video games.
Last update on 2018-03-18 / Affiliate links / Images from Amazon Product Advertising API